20 years old and raising 5 kids, OUCH! I feel for you girl! I only had one child, a little girl named Amanda, who I miss so much. I wish I could have given my wonderful hubby kids, as he's 40 and has never had any of his own and wanted them, but my ex made me get sterilized so I can't have anymore children. Oh well, we're both getting a little too old to try to start a family now anyway, at least we have each other, and 2 dogs, 4 birds (1 quaker parrot and 3 cockatiels), 3 gerbils, 1 lionhead rabbit, 1 bearded dragon, 1 cornsnake, and mice that we breed for the snakes food. Needless to say, I have plenty to keep me busy during the day.