Anastasia916
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That's great Korkelz! Sounds like she's more of a clitoral stimulation type of gal... My suggestion on position and technique for this... get her on top, have it all the way in and she doesn't go up and down, but rather grinds you going back and forth, this will stimulate the clit while getting intercourse at the same time. It's better if she's on top because she will know what speed she wants, how hard, etc. If you want to do missionary for this... put your pelvis as close to her as possible, being completely inside her and grind on her, kind of like dirty type dancing lol. Now if you want to go doggy... just reach your hand around and stimulate her that way, or she can stimulate herself while your doing that. Now...there are clit vibrators that can be strapped onto the female so that the clit is more stimulated during intercourse, just look them up on toy sites or in adult stores. I have one that is a dragonfly, this is one that stimulates the clit, has a beaded type tail connected that looks like the dragonfly's tail and that goes in the butt for anal stimulation, the entire thing vibrates, and it straps onto the body, and if positioned right you can have intercourse while wearing it. And this is good for the male partner too because you'll have a vibrating vagina I use vibrating eggs anally for this as well. Just need LUBE! And to do any kind of anal have to be completely relaxed, as far as lube brand, I recommend astroglide, I hate KY gel HATE HATE HATE!!! And the KY warming liquid, the only liquid that KY sells that is worth a hoot...it burns when used for anal! I cried for hours when I tried it. It felt like my insides were burning! So yea, regular liquid astroglide is the best. And when doing any anal if you can't get relaxed well enough, try drinking a few glasses of wine, relaxes that part of the body very well. LOL you're worried about a little thing of being heard about trying to please your wife and I'm talking about all kinds of crazier things lol. Lighten up hun, no ones judging you! Oh and if you need to warm her up before intercourse, try oral.