Hi Ferrari Girl,
I have the soft rings too and I've had problems with them. When I do get them to pump up, somehow I end up overpumping and end up with these funky looking rings marks that take several days and lots of Bio-Oil to go away. I also noticed that after using them only a few times, they got all smashed. I have an idea that I just posted in another thread. Matt posted a picture of the camper tape on the cups, well I'm thinking about taking it one step further and putting double sided tape (preferably medical tape, since its made for skin) on top of the camper tape to kinda make my own brava-esque domes with some adhesive to help the cups stay on while pumping them.
Lex'