MissPrecious
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Lily13 said:I asked my husband for his advice and he said this guy is lying flat out. No man would give up on the woman he loves or try to keep it all a secret because of what his family thinks. Even if family was completely against the woman, a man would stand up and be with her any way. ((Think of all the movies that are based on this idea where one is hated by the other person's family. Also my thought is who is he trying to keep it a secret from? his family? Well then why hasn't he been showering her with love all of these years?))
If he really is that concerned with what his family thinks, then he is crazy any way (unless the original poster is in her teenage years) and you don't want to be with a guy like this.
Pretty much my husband said the guy is a wuss and not to even confront him. Just move on and do your own thing.
tatiana673 said:Good, my man is religious to some extent and he said that a man should not abandon his parents. he said that if family hate her and never will like her, ever and the guy knows it then he must be honest with the girl and leave her alone. his parents didnt like his previous gf, but they still knew about him dating her. he just never introduced one to the others. of course it never ended nicely anyway...
i like the idea of not even confronting him and just move on and do your own thing. act as u dont need him, can live without him and he happy. ignore his calls.
Lily13 said:haha My parents HATED my husband. They would not talk to him, look at him or even say hi for the first 2 years of our marriage. I just stopped talking to my family until they got the hint that this is what I wanted. Now we've been married for 7 years and all the tension and weirdness is gone. : ) They actually communicate to one another. lol Sometimes it's more about the parents being scared to see their children grow up, than an actual problem with the man or woman. I was the first one to move out and get married, so it was tough on them.