EzzieD- I can totally understand the self esteem issues. I addition to my small breasts I also had fairly bad acne for many years and didn't feel very pretty, though my husband would tell me I was. My face is MUCH clearer now but since going through that time God has given me a different perspective. I see women now with acne, small breasts, other body issues, etc and see beauty in them. I just think to myself sometimes "I wish they could see themselves the way I see them, or even better, the way God sees them." I read a book about relationships once that helped me understand how much confidence can change how we appear to people too. It had a scenario where a woman getting honest answers to questions and comments from men. She had one man's comments describing two women they knew, one tall and thin, delicate features, etc and another woman who was slightly overweight but took care of herself and was confident in her own skin. He said if he saw each if these women with her husband he would think that he had "done good". I'm trying to be more confident in who God made me, changing the things I can and leaving the rest in this hands and for his timing. I still have to fight (daily) self esteem issues but I'm trying to communicate with my husband about things I'm going through so he knows what I'm feeling and what I need from him.
There's so many beautiful ladies on here, I hope they can see that
There's so many beautiful ladies on here, I hope they can see that