I agree with you all about the confidence, i have always been confident and have always been approached by males, like you Anastasia more so when out alone. But i know what I'm talking about, certain men are just suckers for big boobs FACT they couldn't care less about confidence or lack of it.
For the record i was not dressed sexy at all lol,i had a t shirt much like the one Kultzu has on in her pic and a pair of bell bottom jeans yesterday and today jeans and a light floral top, not low cut. so what im saying is this, i know confidence makes us more attractive, we were attractive before we started NB,now even more attractive confident etc. But when i first got huge swelling with the XL domes and had to go straight out after pumping, i felt embarrassed, and actually tried to cover them up with t shirt and cardigan, because they were so humongous that every step i took, they jiggled big time lol I literally stopped traffic, and noone can tell me it was not the boobs that did that, as on that day i felt very self conscious and far from confident. WHich is so weird that i can feel just as self conscious with big boobs as i did sometimes with small boobs!, Also im used to wearing quite tight/fitted tops or low cut v neck types as a small breasted woman. However with big boobs lets just say certain tops look obsence now lolol so i think i need to find a happy medium, and look into changing my style a little....
To be honest nowadays sometimes when i get humongous swelling i don't feel 100% comfortable with some of the stares/leers i get its probably cos they look so much like porn proportion implants on those days, people are probably staring cos they look a bit fake :-\ Kultzus however look very natural so at least hopefully i will get the size i want but without looking overly inflated
PS Anastasia, what is BBW?